Romulus, My Father

Cover of Romulus, My Father

I just watched "Romulus, my Father" with its exquisite storyline and stellar performances from all the cast. What an extraordinary film; beautifully crafted, superbly acted and artfully directed! It's the kind of film that makes me want to find the book and read it. Here, check it out... http://www.romulusmyfather.com.au/index.html.

The movie brought into stark relief the erratic, variable relationships each parent has with his/her children. It made me marvel at how children, more often than not, survive the destructive relationships and thrive in the loving ones. It also reminded me that children are intrinsically optimistic. Despite exceptionally difficult, tragic or abusive relationships with parents, children so often still seem to be able to find love, connection and moments of great joy. I'm astounded that as adults, they are able to look back and find treasured memories of their childhoods - childhoods that those of us with privileged lives are deeply saddened by.

A reminder that truly, "hope springs eternal in the human breast" (thank you Mr Pope!).